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Bottomline: At only 20, she is already on her 10th boyfriend, yes boyfriend number 10 at  just 20. Anyway don’t be surprised, I know others who have better records that would make her a saint amongst sinners.

 

The beauty of life is tomorrow’s uncertainty. To date, she still hopes that one day she will get the right person who will claim her, forever, this time. Dating the wrong people has seemed to be a cup of tea for most people.

Intimate relationships are a human nature, everyone always has their own story to tell. A long short story in most cases. Some will do one person and settle (the God’s favorite persons) while others have to be involved with every Tom, Dick and Harry before finding their perfect match. This is the journey of a campus girl who hasn’t been able to figure it out yet. Could she be the problem?

At only 20, she is already on her 10th boyfriend, yes boyfriend number 10 at  just 20. Anyway don’t be surprised, I know others who have better records that would make her a saint amongst sinners.

What worries her is how depressed she becomes when she has no one to call her own. Breakups are her worst nightmares. Things have changed she is no longer the queen bee she used to be juggling all of them at the same time.

At 13 she was a pretty petite girl. Soft spoken with a pinch of class in how she carried herself from talking to walking amongst her ghetto friends. She was the ghetto princess. Everybody wanted her. It was all cool at first until it got into her head realizing she could actually gain something from all the guys who showed interest in her.

It all began with a private message on her Facebook account, from a stranger asking for a meet up so that they could get to know each other. Since then Lily was always absent. Her dress code changed, she didn’t turn down any offer that came her way as long it involved party after party.

The intoxicating alcohol would bring out her worst character, she would be all over the place with every member of the male species. It was here that she had her first breakup, she felt nothing because there was a long queue of those craving for her attention.

The two years  she spent with Joe, felt like wasted time. She had already had her first of everything ; alcohol, club hopping,house parties, sleepovers the list is endless. After Joe she got into relationships that were short term, boyfriend after boyfriend who lasted for a month or two and that became her.

At 18, things started changing. People distanced themselves from her because she was being slutty. Body counts increased by the day. All in search of the perfect one. Breakups became her worst nightmares because she would stay for months without getting herself another man. It was time………..

Its now seven months since she was heart broken. Her recent breakup was an eye opener. She needed to change her ways. She needed to get to know people a little bit before committing to them first. She needed to handle herself maturely talking over issues feels great instead of engaging in highly tempered baseless arguments that culminated to messy,noisy and nasty breakups. It’s only been 7 months of tremendous growth as she pieces herself together, the girl they left behind has grown.

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